Women must prove themselves on field to fight inequality - Ex-footballer

SHAH ALAM - Gender inequality in Malaysian football continues to be a topic of discussion, with a former women’s national football player claiming that recognition starts with women proving their abilities on the field.

Former Malayan Tigress goalkeeper Nur Izwani Azman, better known as Niena Azman, described gender inequality as a recurring theme in every interview she gives.

While many approach her to discuss the issue, she believes that inequality affects not only women’s football but also numerous other sports and society at large.

“It is up to us, as women, to stand up and make a change. When I first joined the national football scene in 2005, I faced gender discrimination firsthand.

“One particular instance during an Asian Football Confederation (AFC) Under-21 camp stands out.

"I went to a nearby store and overheard a group of boys talking. They said, ‘Even Niena plays for the national team? Girls should be in the kitchen cooking—why are they playing football?’”

“That moment stuck with me, but rather than letting their words bring me down, I chose to ignore them and prove my worth. Today, I am a mother of three, a coach and a manager.

Niena Azman during the recently aired Sinar Daily’s Sports Matters Podcast.

"I have shown that nothing is impossible,” she said during the recently aired Sinar Daily’s Sports Matters Podcast.

Niena believes women should not accept the limitations imposed on them, but instead recognise their own value and potential.

It is only by doing so that they can show men their capabilities.

However, she pointed out that proving oneself requires action, not just words.

“Saying ‘I can do this’ means nothing without results," she stressed.

She added that when others see women turning determination into tangible achievement, they will truly understand their worth and impact.

“At first, my father was hesitant about me playing football.

"He questioned whether I was serious about pursuing the sport, representing the national team, or even attending football camps instead of wandering elsewhere.

“Fortunately, my mother was my biggest supporter, reassuring him that I was truly committed.

"That support from one woman to another meant everything to me. It took five years for my father to watch me play live, but when he did, he was instantly impressed,” she said.

Today, Niena feels deeply grateful for her husband's unwavering support.

From the early days of their relationship to their marriage and now as they raise their children together, he continues to be a strong pillar in her life.

Not only does he bring their children to watch her games, but he also fully supports her career, even taking care of their youngest child so she can focus on her work.

“He believes in me and understands the value of my experience in giving back to society.

“That is why I always say, as women, we must first prove our capabilities—only then will others truly see our potential," she added.