Small Wins, Big Love: A Neuroaffirming Conversation with Dr Zahilah & Irin Putri [LIFE & STYLE PODCAST]

30 Apr 2025 03:05pm

How do we move from simply raising awareness about autism to fostering true acceptance, empathy, and shared responsibility within our society?

In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of Sinar Daily’s Life & Style Podcast, we dive deep into a powerful conversation with two inspiring women at the forefront of the autism advocacy movement in Malaysia: Dr Zahilah Filzah, paediatrician and associate consultant at AT Autism (UK), and Irin Putri, a beloved media personality, producer and mother to Raees, her autistic son.

Through both professional insight and lived experience, Dr Zahilah and Irin explore the importance of taking a neuroaffirming approach - one that doesn’t seek to “fix” or change autistic individuals, but instead respects their unique ways of thinking, being and interacting with the world. They challenge the often one-sided narrative around autism, which puts the burden on autistic individuals to adapt, instead of encouraging society to do the work of understanding, accommodating and accepting.

For Irin, parenting Raees has been a journey of deep learning, transformation and unconditional love. She opens up about what it means to celebrate small wins - from breakthroughs in communication to finding joy in routine - and how these moments create big love and lasting impact. Her honest reflections speak to the realities many parents face from confronting public misconceptions to navigating limited support systems, and offer comfort and solidarity to others on similar paths.

Meanwhile, Dr Zahilah sheds light on why professionals and communities alike must go beyond textbook definitions of autism. She urges listeners to listen to autistic voices, not just from a clinical standpoint but from a human one - to see autism not as a condition to be controlled but as a part of human neurodiversity that deserves dignity, empathy and support.

Together, they discuss:

  • Common myths and misunderstandings around autism.
  • The dangers of focusing solely on early intervention without addressing societal bias.
  • The emotional toll of masking and the mental health challenges faced by many autistic individuals.
  • How non-autistic people can play an active role in creating inclusive environments - in homes, schools, workplaces, and beyond.
  • Why we need better representation of neurodivergent individuals in the media, not just in terms of diagnosis but in lifestyle, fashion, interests and identity.

This episode is not just for parents or professionals - it’s for anyone who wants to be part of a more compassionate inclusive Malaysia. Whether you're parenting an autistic child, working with neurodivergent individuals or simply looking to better understand the diverse world we live in, this is a conversation that will move you and make you think.

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