Raya Homecoming: Malaysia's roads pulse with family and tradition

SHAH ALAM – As Raya nears, Malaysia's roads pulse with familiar activity: cars packed with families, luggage and anticipation.

This yearly journey, often slowed by traffic, holds a quiet magic.

Each vehicle contains similar stories: students eager to see their parents, parents preparing favourite dishes, grandparents waiting. - Bernama photo

Each vehicle contains similar stories: students eager to see their parents, parents preparing favourite dishes, grandparents waiting.

The occasional traffic jam becomes a shared moment in this national homecoming.

The journey's significance lies not in speed, but in the love awaiting at the destination and the unspoken understanding that each car carries cherished hopes for connection.

Wan Muhamad Syafiq Naqiuddin Wan Mustapha, 24, a Royal Malaysian Navy personnel, described his six-hour trip from Perak to Kelantan as vibrant and nostalgic.

After six months away, the festive songs on the radio and the packed roads made the long trip worthwhile.

"I especially look forward to the food. Ketupat and nasi berlauk are a treat I rarely get outside of Kelantan. The tradition of breaking fast together and lighting fireworks as a community adds to the celebration’s joy," he said when met at a local shopping mall.

This year’s Aidilfitri holds extra meaning for him, as it’s his first celebration with his wife after three years of marriage.

For Rohana Husin, 48, a government worker, this Raya is special as her family reunites after time apart.

“In past years, all my children were home, but now one is studying abroad. This year is extra special because we’re all together again,” she said.

Rohana observed that Raya traditions have changed, with gatherings feeling less intimate.

“When we were younger, visiting relatives was essential, strengthening family bonds.

"Now, people are more occupied with their live sessions and phones. During visits, mostly the older generation engages in conversation, while the younger ones are on their screens,” she added.

Muhd Danish Akmal, 20, who works in the food and beverage industry, shared that his favourite Raya memory this year is welcoming his six siblings home.

“The first day is the best. Cooking together, especially rendang, is something we anticipate. Raya prayers and visiting neighbors are also important,” he said.

Adding a modern touch, Danish and his family capture their Raya moments in videos, making the festivities more memorable.

For Hanna Marzuki, 29, a public sector employee, the nine-hour journey from Johor to Kelantan was long but worthwhile.

“I love the food, so visiting homes and enjoying festive meals is my favorite part. Celebrations feel different now. Before, Raya was filled with conversations and laughter, but kids are more focused on their phones,” she said.

However, Hanna believes traditions evolve and she embraces new ways of celebrating.

“If my nieces or cousins invite me to join a trending activity, I’ll happily join them,” she said, noting that each Raya holds unique memories.